Many women are... confused. They are raised with conflicting messages their whole lives. It's not surprising. I'd hate to constantly hear that I need to be sexy but pure, strong but sensitive...
And then you have crap like Cosmo. That magazine shoots for the lowest common denominator. The magazine was totally different until it was taken over by Helen Brown in the 60's. Her goal was to dumb it down and shift the focus more towards sex. And it worked.
EH, I'm about to go on a rant so I'll just stop here. Nice video!