I was just like you until this year, i literally told a few close friends about my channel and that was it, i hid any trace of having a channel from my family, only film when home alone etc. However this year as in a couple of weeks ago tbh that all changed, a famous youtuber comes into my mums work, and she asked him if he could give me any tips on getting started as she thought it was something i might be interested in giving a go, she asked me if i would like to give it a go, and i should try it and i told her that i already had been doing it for 2 years, it was like a massive weight of my mind, as when i buy or receive things for my channel i can now be completely honest with her, and she is actually really supportive of me doing it as a career one day. One of my resolutions is to improve my channel and be more honest and tell more people i do it, and more then anything people are amazed and think it's really cool especially when they hear about my sub count, (it's not great but it is in their eyes)
It makes me really sad that all your family and friends make you feel ashamed to do it, i am honestly rooting for you now to become successful then you can proper rub it in their face, i can guarantee then that the comments will stop, it's a hobby that can potentially earn you thousands if done right i don't see what is so bad about it, if my kid did it i would love it (obviously i would monitor their channel to make sure they don't upload anything innappropiate or get complete weirdos) but i would love to make it a family thing if i meet the right person, i would love to be one of those weekly or daily vlogging channels.
I really hope that one day they will change their minds as this has made me feel really sad