Help me please! (Bullying)

TheMonvster

TheMonvster

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Hello. I am pretty much getting bullied. Some 15-16 y/o guys post hate on my videos. If it was just that,i wouldnt care that much (even though they are calling my gay and stuff and they are destroying my channel). But the bad thing is is that they live in the same neighborhood as i live in. They pretty much bully me and stuff. They call me names,they hit me,etc. What do i do? If you want to see some examples of comments,here:

f**k YOU STUPID MALAYSIAN GAY!! GO f**k YOURSELF YOU STUPID ASSFACE!! YOU ARE A ******** YOU b***h.
. They were actually doing this a while back,but i quit youtube for a few months (thats why i have 300 subs and 1 video). I recently wanted to get back on making videos on youtube,but the same thing happend. I really dont know what to do. Any help,please? Also,they make fun of me because my voice is pitched up for some reason. (im 13 btw)
 
As for online you can just... block him. I mean, why would you continue to allow him to post that kind of insults to your channel when you can literally stop him from doing so with the click of a button?

As for real life, tough cookie. Sorry you have to deal with that. Talk to your parents, see if they can help? I don't know what it's like where you are, but around here you can get the police involved when he hits you etc.
 
Amelia Jane said:
As for online you can just... block him. I mean, why would you continue to allow him to post that kind of insults to your channel when you can literally stop him from doing so with the click of a button?

As for real life, tough cookie. Sorry you have to deal with that. Talk to your parents, see if they can help? I don't know what it's like where you are, but around here you can get the police involved when he hits you etc.
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They dont actually hit me,they just call me names and stuff to their friends,and their friends to their friends,etc
 
On YouTube you can ban them from your channel.

In real life, you need to speak with someone. Print out the comments, show them to someone. Teachers, parents, police, really anyone. You can call the police on a non-emergency number and tell them about it. They might send an investigator over to your house where you show them evidence and they will go to that person's house and speak with them about it.

If you tell the principal about it at the school, they will be suspended.
 
newage said:
On YouTube you can ban them from your channel.

In real life, you need to speak with someone. Print out the comments, show them to someone. Teachers, parents, police, really anyone. You can call the police on a non-emergency number and tell them about it. They might send an investigator over to your house where you show them evidence and they will go to that person's house and speak with them about it.

If you tell the principal about it at the school, they will be suspended.
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I cant ban them because they just make new accounts and stuff. Also,i dont know their school.
 
Says here productforums.google.com/forum/#!topic/youtube/uSRvNM2cQOw if you have 3 accounts with 1 strike each they will be permanently banned. So be sure to report their accounts each time they post. Hopefully after 3 accounts and 3 reports they will be gone.
 
newage said:
Says here productforums.google.com/forum/#!topic/youtube/uSRvNM2cQOw if you have 3 accounts with 1 strike each they will be permanently banned. So be sure to report their accounts each time they post. Hopefully after 3 accounts and 3 reports they will be gone.
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Alright! Thank you! :)
 
When I was your age, I got bully'ed in school by my class mates. Everything stoped, when I punched the biggest kid in the face. I don't say It was the right way. And I don't want to say that you must do it. But that helped me.
I had to stand up for myself. Noone else did.
 
Filing a copyright strike is different than reporting a YouTube post. Reporting a YouTube post does not leave a strike on someone's account. This cyber bullying section of Google's support might help:
https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/2802268?hl=en

I would block them, and if they make a new account, I'd block the new account, too. Start keeping a journal of screenshots and real-life incidents that illustrate their bullying, and tell your parents what has been happening. If things begin to escalate, I'd get the police involved. Show them your journal of bullying events. The police will scare the poop out of the bullies, and then they will probably leave you alone. ^^ This method worked for me! =)
 
What i've found, always delete the comment right away.
Don't show that its effecting you. (to them! talk to someone if its effecting you, but don't necessarily retaliate to them.)
I think on youtube you can block certain words? go to settings, community, community settings, and you can "blacklist" words. meaning comments with that word will be held to review etc. so, add a couple words that they tend to regularly use (i thinkk, never personally used this tho!)

I've had a few people like this, they tend to get bored after a couple months if you show no signs of it effecting you, just keep doing what you do and being you c:
Try not to let what they say get in the way of doing what you do. I quit youtube twice for that reason, and, regretted it each time. Stay Strong yo c: you're the bigger person in this!

(idk what to suggest for the real life side of it, but, theres probably some help systems around, maybe talk to an adult you trust of some sort?)
 
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